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Marcus Borg uses the term "closed hearts" to talk about rigidity,
rationalizing, and blindness to others and new options.
At the deepest level,the individual either cannot or will not be open to new people and ideas.
Some regist because of fear and others are not ready to change
because they enjoy being on a plateau.
Often insecurity is at the core of a closed heart, which Borg describes as one that is
insensitive to freedom, prefering the status quo, and lacking the gratitude and compassion to
accept new people and new ideas.